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Protocol

Etiquette around the world: what's polite where

A gesture that's warm at home can be an insult abroad. Here's a traveller's and businessperson's field guide to manners that matter — greetings, dining, gifts and the small graces that open doors.

Etiquette isn't fussiness — it's fluency. Getting the small things right tells the people around you that you took the trouble to learn their customs, and that quiet signal opens more doors than any amount of confidence. Here are some of the customs most worth knowing before you travel or do business.

Japan

The UAE & the Gulf

France

India

Thailand

Germany & Northern Europe

The universal graces

Wherever you are, three things travel: greet before you ask, watch what your hosts do and follow, and accept hospitality warmly even when you can't finish it. Get those right and you'll be forgiven almost any smaller slip.

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Common questions

Is tipping rude in Japan?

Often, yes — good service is part of the price, and leaving cash can cause confusion. Excellent service is simply the standard.

What's considered rude in the UAE and the Gulf?

Pointing the sole of your shoe at someone, or using the left hand to give or eat. Use the right hand, and accept hospitality graciously.

Why is punctuality so important in Germany?

Being on time signals respect and reliability; unannounced lateness reads as careless with others' time. Aim to arrive a few minutes early.